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Teen Self-Esteem, Body Image & Identity: Supporting Confidence During Adolescence
Teen Self-Esteem, Body Image & Identity Support
Assessment Information Sheet – HarbourLight Psychology Melbourne
Teen Self-Esteem, Body Image & Identity: Supporting Confidence During Adolescence
Adolescence is a time of significant change. Physical development, social comparison, identity exploration, and increased expectations can all affect how young people see themselves. It is common for teenagers to experience fluctuations in confidence, self-worth, and body image as they navigate these changes.
For some teens, concerns about appearance, self-esteem, or identity become persistent and begin to interfere with wellbeing, relationships, school engagement, or willingness to participate in everyday activities. These experiences often reflect sensitivity to social pressures, comparison, and the challenges of forming a sense of self in a highly visible and evaluative world.
At HarbourLight Psychology, we provide developmentally informed, evidence-based support to help adolescents build a more stable sense of self and develop a more balanced relationship with their body over time.
Self-esteem, body image, and identity concerns can show up in a range of ways, including:
Common Experiences in Teens
Thoughts & Beliefs
- • Ongoing self-doubt or harsh self-criticism
• Feeling “not good enough” or inferior to others
• Persistent comparison with peers or people on social media
• Strong focus on perceived flaws or appearance
Emotional & Physical Responses
- • Anxiety or low mood linked to self-image or confidence
• Shame or embarrassment about appearance or identity
• Increased sensitivity to feedback or comments
• Tension, withdrawal, or emotional distress in social situations
Behavioural Patterns
- • Avoiding activities, photos, sports, or social events
• Holding back from speaking up or trying new things
• Changes in clothing choices to hide the body
• Seeking reassurance or external validation
These concerns often overlap with anxiety, low mood, perfectionism, or social stress.
Therapy Process for Teen Self-Esteem & Body Image Concerns
Therapy offers a supportive space for teens to explore how their self-view has developed and how it relates to daily life.
Our psychologists work collaboratively with adolescents and, where appropriate, involve parents or carers to support progress while respecting the young person’s autonomy and privacy.
What to expect:
Initial Session:
Understanding the teen’s experiences, concerns, strengths, and goals for support.
Assessment & Check-ins:
Gentle check-ins or questionnaires may be used to track confidence, mood, or stress over time.
Ongoing Sessions:
Focus on developing self-understanding, reducing unhelpful comparison, and building confidence and self-compassion.
Review & Planning:
Progress is reviewed regularly and strategies are adjusted as needed.
Duration: Varies depending on individual needs
Cost: Medicare rebates may be available with a GP Mental Health Care Plan. Private health insurance or NDIS support may be available depending on your circumstances. Please confirm with your provider or case manager.
Wait time: Current wait times are typically around 1–2 weeks
How Therapy May Support Teens
Therapy may help adolescents to:
• Develop a more balanced and compassionate self-view
• Explore ways to reduce the impact of social comparison and self-criticism
• Support the development of confidence and willingness to participate in daily life
• Build emotional regulation and resilience skills
• Explore identity in a safe, non-judgemental space
• Develop self-worth that is less dependent on appearance or approval
Support is paced carefully and tailored to each teen’s developmental stage and needs.
Approaches Commonly Used
Support is grounded in evidence-based psychological approaches commonly used in general practice, including:
• Psychoeducation: Understanding self-esteem, body image, and social comparison
• CBT-informed Strategies: Identifying and responding differently to unhelpful self-beliefs
• Acceptance-Based Approaches: Building flexibility around thoughts and feelings
• Self-Compassion Strategies: Developing a kinder internal dialogue
• Values-Focused Work: Supporting teens to define identity beyond appearance or performance
Where appropriate, collaboration with schools or GPs may form part of the support process.
Frequently Asked Questions
- How do I know if my teen’s self-esteem or body image concerns need support?
If concerns are persistent, cause distress, or interfere with school, relationships, or daily activities, professional support may be helpful.
Is this the same as eating disorder treatment?
No. HarbourLight Psychology supports self-esteem, body image, and confidence concerns. We do not provide treatment for eating disorders. If eating-related difficulties are identified, appropriate referrals and support options will be discussed.
Will therapy focus on appearance or weight?
No. Therapy focuses on thoughts, feelings, confidence, identity, and wellbeing rather than changing appearance.
Will parents be involved?
Parent involvement is discussed collaboratively and depends on the teen’s age, needs, and preferences.
Can therapy help if these concerns have been present for a long time?
Therapy can support teens to develop new ways of relating to themselves, even when concerns have been longstanding.
When to Seek Urgent Support
If a young person expresses thoughts of self-harm, suicide, or is at immediate risk, urgent support is important. Please contact your GP, local emergency services, or Lifeline (13 11 14).
Why Choose HarbourLight Psychology?
- • Registered psychologists experienced in working with adolescents and building self-esteem
• Evidence-based, developmentally informed care
• Respectful, non-judgemental approach
• Medicare and Private options available
• Flexible appointment times, including after school and telehealth
• Location: Melbourne / East Melbourne
Get Started
If self-esteem, body image, or identity concerns are affecting your teen’s wellbeing, support is available.
HarbourLight Psychology – supporting young people to build confidence, self-understanding, and a stronger sense of self.
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